Life And Its Compromises !!! | Rajat Poonia Rajasthan

Is life all about compromises ???
I have seen many people saying that life is all about comprise whether you accept it  or not. And I strongly disagree that. We are not here to compromise. We have a purpose and that is why we are sent here.

There are two sides to every issue: one side is right and the other is wrong, but the middle is always evil. The man who is wrong still retains some respect for truth, if only by accepting the responsibility of choice. But the man in the middle is the knave who blanks out the truth in order to pretend that no choice or values exist, who is willing to sit out the course of any battle, willing to cash in on the blood of the innocent or to crawl on his belly to the guilty, who dispenses justice by condemning both the robber and the robbed to jail, who solves conflicts by ordering the thinker and the fool to meet each other halfway. 
In any compromise between food and poison, it is only death that can win. In any compromise between good and evil, it is only evil that can profit.

See what we do our whole lives and especially woman. When a baby is born he doesn't  know who he is. He gets his identity from his parents. He is sent to  temple, mosque, synagogue, monastery and like that he gets his religion. 

Eventually  he starts learning about relations, life, hardships,victory, failure and  thick and thins of life. He starts thinking about his own family  members and  starts sacrificing his dreams for his family. Which in my  view is the blunder he is doing. One should never kill his dreams as  this will not give him happiness and that in turn will not make his  loved ones happy. At times you feel like I dream a lot more than my capability. You doubt yourself, again you are committing one more mistake. To fulfill all your dreams you may take time, you may  disappoint your loved ones for a while but believe when you reach your  goal they will be more than happy. They stop you from those things which  in their view give you pain. They are impatient. But you should not  be. 

Now lets  gather around and talk also about love relationships. A guy likes a girl &  the girl likes a guy, Perfect. They are certain that they can live with  each other forever. Awesome and simple Isn't it?? Now how after certain  period of time you can think about the same person that he she has changed over time and I don't feel the same for her or him. I think if  I'll be with him or her I am going to compromise throughout my life. She is  the same girl and he is the same guy.

What must have happened???
It means  they became certain about each other just too fast. That s where  patience and time plays a very important role in every aspect of your  life. Compromise  should not come in any relation that is what I feel. You both should be  free birds while being in a relationship. If he/ she loves you it simply  means  yes they love fully you and just not a part of you. So, accept your partner the way he/she is.

 Don't try to  bring changes in them for your own good. Yes you can tell them things  if you think those things can bring a positive change in the other  person.  Nothing wrong in that. But there should be a way of telling. You  should calmly tell your partner that buddy what you are doing can really put you in trouble and that's it. And then don't expect that they are going to listen to you. As they are individuals. You can never force anybody to  do something , you just can tell them.

This way  make your life simpler, happier and worth living. Live and let live. Where there is love there is no force. Let your partner be him or her.

sometimes If you want to bring an end to long-standing conflict, you have to be prepared to compromise.In what we call "real life"--if you want to be successful, if you want to get on in the long term -you always have to come to some kind of compromise with your 
own emotions.