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                 * Do we still have a second chance? So what do we do? Anything.There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake.  Something So long as we just don't sit there. If we screw it up, start over. Try something else. If we wait until we've satisfied all the uncertainties, it may be too late. Because I still don't know how to act and don't know what to say ,Still wear the scars like it was yesterday.But I still don't know where to start, still finding my way. And if i will find it then its gonna be hard but it's only way to get a new and real way for my life. Like loving some...

                                                  * Emotions * Emotions are key in creating. You could think about money but if you are feeling fear while you have the thought you are actually creating a lack of money. If you think about love but are sad because you don’t feel you have enough love, you are creating a lack of love. Thoughts and emotions create your reality. All of it. What you think about and the feelings you have while you think those thoughts, are like magnets, attracting circumstances, things, opportunities and people to you in precisely the way that makes you feel the same exact way. It is not just the thought that creates. We have thousands of thoughts a day. Obviously they are not all manifest. What creates our reality is a thought connected to an emotion. And not just one thought and one emotion, but a steady stream of thoughts an...

                             *** ARE WE ATHLETIC? *** Despite of being a nation of more than a hundred million people, not more than a couple of Olympic gold medal has been eluding us for the last many O lympics.  No doubt we have the privilege of producing some great batting giants like Sunil Gavaskar and Sachin Tendulkar . But where is the element of athletics in donning gloves as a batsman? The lack of genuine fast bowlers  proves that we lack in athletics.             And now about  other fields. Coming to our football first,  we see that this sport has never had even a semblance of international recognition. Hockey,  our national game,  has seen a sharp decline ever since some developed countries joined the fray. Barring some occasional outbursts of success,  the overall scenario in this game does not augur well. And the crux of the ma...

                                    ** LATERAL THINKING ** “The young Isaac Newton is sitting in his garden when an apple falls on his head and, in a stroke of brilliant insight, he suddenly comes up with his theory of gravity. “ An apple changed his life. It was not a matter of chance or luck but LATERAL THINKING. Lateral thinking is solving problems through an indirect and creative approach, using reasoning that is not immediately obvious and involving ideas that may not be obtainable by using only traditional step-by-step logic. A country where half of its population is unaware about topics such as these. In a society where we all have access to the internet,a resource that can change your world, a resource that needs only an effort but where is this effort going is a question of ultimate importance.  Lateral thinking involves generating an idea that comes randomly, the idea has t...

                                 *   BREAK THE RULES * Always people wants to do something different i don't know why but may be for lime lite,focus etc. but only do something isn't  enough in-fact need to do something right something dareful what other can't do or don't do so be the first to improve  your stand improve your stuff etc. and sometimes it's also important that stand up for right opposes to wrong not only for own-self but also for others.   Sometime we get so surprised when we found someone standing for us but do not give proper reflection to them .... so we have to stand for little little thing we have to increases our standard etc .. why  we follow them(people who are briber,corrupt etc) we would have to make our dreams and fulfill them without any pressure  without any fear etc   I'm not saying that you should fight with powerful person i'm onl...

S ometimes it's not easy to wash out some memory and loved ones from our life. But when love becomes important for you then all is vain and you only want her and want to wait for her. And here i am missing her. My heart is restless, my life is going away. Yesterday you waited for me ,Today I wait for you. Because You are my life , you are the peace of my heart . Sometimes I think about my eyes that why did they adorn dreams of love ? Life has become a burden. Now I do not live nor die.I used to love you yesterday.I still love you now. Now don't let the relationship of love break.Now we will have to maintain this r elation. In my paths, like yesterday you will.Have to pull out the thorns of pain.In the paths of happiness, don't let us obtain.The shadows of grief, I fear ! Plz come back to me ....  i will show you, how much i love you ? My heart behaves like lost. You are my life, you are rest of my heart. you know my happiness is linked with you. You didn...

S ometimes it's not easy to wash out some memory and loved ones from our life. But when love becomes important for you then all is vain and you only want her and want to wait for her. And here i am missing her. My heart is restless, my life is going away. Yesterday you waited for me ,Today I wait for you. Because You are my life , you are the peace of my heart . Sometimes I think about my eyes that why did they adorn dreams of love ? Life has become a burden. Now I do not live nor die.I used to love you yesterday.I still love you now. Now don't let the relationship of love break.Now we will have to maintain this r elation. In my paths, like yesterday you will.Have to pull out the thorns of pain.In the paths of happiness, don't let us obtain.The shadows of grief, I fear ! Plz come back to me ....  i will show you, how much i love you ? My heart behaves like lost. You are my life, you are rest of my heart. you know my happiness is linked with you. You didn...

How to live?    W ell, the question that each  person gives an answer himself. T o live in the first place, dignified, happy and joyful. Avoid problems, be kinder, braver and responsive. Not afraid to love, not afraid to decide to do, think and create. Let all be up to you, listen to the advice of elders, to realize their goals and dreams, do not be lazy . here are the basic precepts and rules.  W ithout any way of hedonism, even mutual love is a hedonism, although inherently love is a willingness to sacrifice, and therefore - altruism in its purest form. You must be able to forgive, to be grateful and then you will not feel slighted, depressed or oppressed.  P eople are unhappy because they forget the basic rules and commandments receive temporal punishment for forgetting that, f rustrated and get new, for their dissatisfaction, l ife puts us in a rigid framework, t o show that we are wrong. T he sooner we understand it, the more problems we c...

God created ‘Heaven on Earth’ and it is called Kashmir! Recently devastated by the fury of nature, this bruised beauty is suffering the horrible rampage caused by floods. Let us be One and be the beacon of hope for the people suffering from all this devastation. T he concert titled “ HUM HAIN… Umeed-e-Kashmir ” was held on Saturday and the stars appealed to masses to donate to rebuild the flood-hit regions of the country. The initiative was led by the Event and Entertainment Management Association (EEMA), the Film and Television Producers Guild and Zee Entertainment Enterprises Limited (ZEE). The plight of the people of Jammu and Kashmir has always been a matter of concern and the floods have only made it worse. A collection of celebrity memorabilia will also go on auction. All money generated through the fundraiser through sale of tickets, donations, sponsorships, commercial  time and auctions will be given to charitie s in Jammu and Kashmir and the most recentl...

***       Life  : A Never-Ending Series of Reactions      *** In many ways , our lives are a series of reactions. It’s unavoidable. And while we do our best to create our own destiny and to live proactive and productive lives, the reality is that we all live in a dynamic and unpredictable world.  Reacting is a fundamental and necessary part of the human experience.It’s a required skill. It’s what we do hundreds of times a day. Consciously or not. Positively or negatively. We hear the weather forecast, we react Our partner says something, we react. Our child spills milk, we react.The boss walks in, we react. We hear good or bad news,we react.One way or the other.Somebody lets us down, we react.The lights change,we react .Somebody gives us feedback, we react. A song comes on the radio,we react.  An opportunity presents itself, we react. We’re confronted with a challenge, we react.           ...

Engineering is not only study of 45 subjects but it is moral studies of intellectual life, that's it !! When searched for the meaning Wiki says "Engineering is the application of scientific , economic, social, and practical knowledge in order to design , build, maintain, and improve structures,machines, devices, systems, materials and processes" There's nothing I believe in more strongly than getting young people interested in science and engineering , for a better tomorrow, for all humankind. Architecture begins where engineering ends.Once a new technology rolls over you, if you're not part of the steamroller, you're part of the road. Either Best selling " 5 point someone " or the blockbuster " 3  idiots "  made impact as just ' book/movie ' no one never ever  tried to  make a change. While every educational activist is preaching about the  need of changing the educational system, there are so called engineering  colleges ...

Empathy or Sympathy? There are a lot of people who shower their sympathy on you but it’s just a few countable ones who show empathy and those are the only ones with whom you can share your pain and talk your heart out. you’ll know what kind of person you are - sympathetic or the empathetic. Empathy and Sympathy :: Empathy- The ability to understand and share the feeling of another. Sympathy- Feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune. The definition of Empathy clearly starts with the words ‘ability to understand’ ones you are capable of doing that you are much capable of setting up connection and  it’s mostly the much deeper and much valuable connection with people . You are adding a little extra of you when you are empathetic and that little extra is UNDERSTANDING. Difference between the two emotions and you clearly know empathy stands out. You always prefer someone who can understand the e motional pain and suffering you are undergoing over someo...

As we know,A painter paints pictures on canvas. But musicians paint their pictures on silence.One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.And That's the reason behind the success of music . After all Music is the medicine of the breaking heart. Music is obviously more than a way of getting a party started and giving us a rhythm to dance to and having fun but just how much more? We use music to relax, set any mood for guests, express our feelings and motivate us. Yes the beat of the song affects our mood and what we think about the song and how we respond to it but the music alone sometimes and the words of the songs can impact us more than that. Singers always said that 'People haven't always been there for me but music always has. ' because music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything. Sometimes story of a movie is not so good,but because of music it rock on the stage. so we...

Is life all about compromises ??? I have seen many people saying that life is all about compris e whether you accept it  or not. And I strongly disagre e that. We are not here to compromise. We have a purpose and that is why we are sent here. There are two sides to every issue: one side is right and the other is wrong, but the middle is always evil. The man who is wrong still retains some respect for truth, if only by accepting the responsibility of choice. But the man in the middle is the knave who blanks out the truth in order to pretend that no choice or values exist, who is willing to sit out the course of any battle, willing to cash in on the blood of the innocent or to crawl on his belly to the guilty, who dispenses justice by condemning both the robber and the robbed to jail, who solves conflicts by ordering the thinker and the fool to meet each other halfway.  In any compromise between food and poison, it is only death that can win. In any compromise between good ...

People are really terrible , you don't believe ! When i heard 1st about it ,i also didn't believe , but now i believe ! Here is a tale which is related to  a real story  by which we can understand the situation. But for it our imagination must be good because imagination can go anywhere ! Imagine you wake up to a woman’s screams one late night. Alerted, you instantly rush to your apartment’s window and poke your head outside. The sight you witness sends shiver down your spine: the only source of light outside is a street light, under which a woman lies writhing on the ground, covered in a pool of blood, and  you notice silhouette of a man sprinting away from the spot. But that’s not all – apart from you, many people from your own building and the opposite ones are also leaning outwards from their windows and looking down at the  woman with a deadpan stare. She’s dazed with pain and crying for help. You feel uneasy and think to yourself ‘Why is nobody...

Life is like a game, if you knockout then game is over. otherwise it will change everything ! Market is really a big game , which don't have any limits in fields & in number of players.Today's market really full of competitors . At every place you could find about it,  Whatever products you have, related to  any field. I want to talk about property dealing or about plots. This was my 1st time and I felt that it isn't easy as it seems but not so hard. Every one want to get benefit by selling his land to another party. I think it is like a cricket match where I am on the crease(doing batting) and there is one bowler and all others fielders. Here bowler can be taken as the man who will actually buy the land  from me and others are fielders who are trying to sell their property or land and want to get profit. Our match starts now - And finally I am on the crease and my aim to get one run  by which I can win. So I need to try for one run from these fielde...

S hort tale always help to remind someone's thought.Here is a short tale of a girl which e xpressed herself when i asked about her p ast .Her name is Alika . S he Said ::: :   I had r elationship not so long ago, it was very complicated story and l ast autumn and winter i also had  love story.  I experienced very d ifferent and deep feelings, but in generally we parted. That b oy wasn`t for me , we decided that we very differently and he thought that we need a relax and pause. I didn`t want, but when he wanted to came back all  i didn`t agree with him. And other boy very loved me, but i didn`t feel to him nothing, we know each other 2 years and now, when he try to be with me another time i refused and we very quarreled. And my friend and classmate like me, but we just a friends. Many boys who like me don`t correspond to my requirements . It was short tale about Alika)                 Fu ture D ep...

In any relationship, communication is e ssential. One way is to build good listening skills. One needs to let the other person know what is in his or her mind .     We cannot keep on second-guessing the other person. Open communication even becomes critical so as not to m isunderstand each other. Problems arise when one partne r expects the other to read his or her m ind and you will agree with me that this is close to i mpo ss ible. difficult as this may sound but when we are self-centered , we tend to dismiss the other person's feelings and say anything we want to say to suit our moods.      To be outward-looking is to be concerned of the feelings of the other person. You can ask yourself " Did I make her happy today or did I hurt her feelings? " Credit:Google.com      A gain, its important to build good listening skills. Most of the time because of pride we tend to hurt the other. In order to maintain unity in a relations...

I want to know what was that ? I was sitting there on ground which(ground) is open for everyone. i was feeling good. One boy with girl came there in ground for hangout & talking . so they were standing there under a tree and talking . A man in car came there(in ground) and he was showing stunts or what i don't know, he took his car just near both of them (boy & girl ) who were talking under the shadow of a tree. Due to his car ... sand was flying around them or say around both of them sand sand & sand . What was that ?????? After that man took his car again at nearly 50 meter distance and rotating his car, due to which lot of sand was in air. And the fucking thing was that, ground was very very large then why he wished only that area for doing that . They don't even know him and don't want to know him. They only came there for hangout and talking and want to spend some time. That was good ,surprised about the man whic h running car and sh...

words matter much, when someone is very close to us . sometimes i agree to do everything for her but she not !  i want to talk to her all day but she can't ! i want to care, but she doesn't respond ! i said her all truth but sometimes she don't believe ! i don't want to talk about anything else but she always insert one in between and i don't like it ! i don't know what it means but i have feeling about her ! i want to listen but she mostly want only text message! she ask the difference  between her  and other girl ... then i said that feeling are the important part between us . she don't understand me or whatever !  but she said that she understand me ! she said that she always take my words as serious talk   .. .... i always say her that  please don't talk about others(girls or people) with me . she said that you don't know how to talk a girl ... oh i said i don't have any experience of this type ! i don't w...

Child which work at hotel , tea shop ,restaurants and other places are very poor in education and other fields like sports. Everyone deserves the best start in life,And education is essential to a child's development. T hey are innocent and very keen or very excited about things, which they saw around them.I can’t think of any issue that is more important than working to see that no schoolchild in this world goes hungry.When the lives and the rights of children are at stake, there must be no silent witnesses. L ike in India it is rare and you can find it anywhere .And this is difficult to change the situation. W hen we go at any restaurant or in lower standard hotel  then we found children who work there. These children becomes happy when they saw new things like mobile , laptop or other items.  they thinks like that "wish i also have it" . B ut but but ... Sometimes it may harmful for them. Because it produce greedy inside them due to which th...

Strikes can be anywhere like college strike , politician strike, teachers strike , salary strike ,Road strike, social strike , religion strike .... The Aim of any strike to get something which they want or hope. They hope that they can only complete their wish by making these type of strike. There is no right to strike against the public safety by anybody, anywhere, at any time. But sometimes it is necessary to do. The right to discuss freely and openly , by speech, by the pen, by the press, all political questions, and to examine and animadvert upon all political institutions, is a right so clear and certain, so interwoven with our other liberties, so necessary, in fact to their existence, that without it we must fall at once into depression or anarchy. To say that he who holds unpopular opinions must hold them at the peril of his life, and that, if he expresses them in public, he has only himself to blame if they who disagree with him should rise and put him t...

w e live our life happily (except some miserable condition) but is it same with all people ? ever did u think about this..? generally not , even in reality we think why we should think about this while we aren't in touch with this. I think it's not so true because those people make great contribution to live our lives happily without caring about those lives .. and it's not so simple as saying it's their duty etc. for this   face up anyone should have indomitable courage . but who cares...??? everyone running to make their life perfect, even our government also irregular for this .. perhaps i'm not 100% true bu t even mostly it true ,and its not of a single person duty to do something about this to think about this etc. everyone should have gratitude for this ..  l et take a example few days back i was watching a movie " filmisthan "  and approximate same sense in that.. why they bloody hell catch innocent people and make ...